I've been a terrible friend!

Dena Gould • March 31, 2021

 

I should have shared this a year ago! Ground, Protect, and Cleanse your energy!

 

person with light energy

She asked, “What in the actual fuck?!” One of my girlfriends has been through more “challenging” experiences than I can even imagine. She means business this lifetime. She is taking on ALL THE CONTRAST! After the most recent… contrast, she shared on messenger, “It just sucked the life out of me.” 

 

My response: “Sometimes when I clear dark energy, I am wiped for three days. Be sure you are meditating daily to bring your power and energy back. I am also conscious when I go to bed at night to connect to the Divine and bring in the light.” 

 

Her response that next day: “I released so much shit last night, I could actually feel it pouring out of me.” (She is a powerful intuitive force. I will let you know when she begins offering energy sessions.) 😊 

 

Because I've been doing energy work for so long, I sometimes forget what I habitually do to clear and protect my energy. I was used to sharing the basic techniques that I have taught for years because they had worked.

In the past, I was able to get away with allowing never-ending Divine Energy to flow through me as a way to keep my personal energy, and I never felt too terribly tired. Occasionally, I would have to filter or shield my energy if it got to be a bit much, and maybe add a simple cleanse after a heavy encounter. And that’s what I have been sharing. 

 

However, I have found that within the past few years, it has gotten a bit more intense. I now must consciously ground myself every day and do conscious cleansings, among other things. I learned that when I clear “the heavy stuff” I must consciously connect to the Divine before bed and allow the light to flow through me, clearing my vessel. I added this technique to my nightly routine and it has become second-nature. 

 

After she shared her experience, I thought, I’m a horrible friend. I probably should have shared this technique a year ago! I am being reminded that the things that I do habitually could probably be pretty damn beneficial to a lot of you. I apologize for not sharing this sooner with you! 

 

I do not like to live in fear or worry. However, being proactive and conscious just makes sense. Everything is energy, from the food that we eat, to the bed that we lay in. DO NOT get caught up in worrying too much about bad or good energy (we tend to label our experiences to better understand them, but this may pull our energy further away from us, and fear of “bad” just feeds fear!) I have found it easier to view it as a frequency; everything vibrates at different frequencies and we want to do our best to not take on frequencies that do not feel good to us.

But how? 

 

We can do this by Grounding, Protecting and Cleansing our energy. 
 

I want to remind you to do these three processes, nightly if possible, and you will experience a huge shift in your energy and ability to shine. 

 

 I am always about ease and intention, so I will share a few techniques that I practice nightly and also that I enjoy! This may appear to be quite a bit to start out if you are not already doing techniques of your own, but after a while it will become second nature. 



GROUNDING:

Click to watch now!

1. Visually see the light energy of you coming down from your root chakra or tailbone and wrapping around the center of the earth. Set the intention to anchor your energy. 

2. Optional add on: Set the intention to see and feel Earth Energy coming up through your light energy and providing grounding support. Then see/feel Source Energy coming into your light energy through the top of your head and intermingling with the Earth Energy. Allow yourself to feel aligned within your body, connected to all. 

 

PROTECTING: 

Click to watch now
!

1. See and feel never-ending Source Energy coming in through the top of your head and out your energy centers as needed so that no one is pulling YOUR energy, but they are benefiting from the “Light that is YOU.” This can be fun. Your energy will be missed when you are not around. 


Watch option 2 now!
2. Optional add on: This specific technique came to me this month in a session. See yourself as millions of beautiful golden sparkles and if your energy feels pulled, visually see/feel these sparkles effortlessly connect and mirror back to the person/event pulling your energy. 

CLEANSING

Click to watch now!

1. See and feel the power of YOUR LIGHT (this can come from your root, your heart, or wherever it resonates with you) getting bigger and bigger. As it gets bigger, know that the lower frequencies dissipate in YOUR LIGHT. 

Click to watch now!
2. When in bed, see and feel Source Energy flowing throughout your entire body as you allow the energy that does not serve you being released out of your extremities. Allow this process to continue while you sleep. 

 

Try these, and try them again, add and adjust as you need, but build them into your nightly routine. Doing this has ensured that I am living at the frequency that I want and not being pulled into lower states. 

Keep those vibrations sky high, and be the damn light! 


Much love, 

 
Dena Gould 


*I’m always happy to hear from you! Comment with your favorite techniques to Ground, Protect and Cleanse your energy! 

 


an image depicting the ripple effect of your energy
By Dena Gould April 27, 2025
Discover how small daily actions can raise your vibration and heal the collective. Dena Gould, energy healer in Denver, shares powerful ways to contribute Light consciously.
water crystals that formed after different phrases by Dr Masaru Emoto
By Dena Gould March 28, 2025
Discover the consciousness of water and how intention shapes reality. Explore Dr. Masaru Emoto's research, Veda Austin’s hydroglyphs, and daily water rituals for healing and mindfulness. Learn how water responds, remembers, and connects us all.
a woman silhouette walks down a spiral
By Dena Gould February 26, 2025
Feeling overwhelmed by fear and negativity? Learn how to reclaim your power, raise your frequency, and stay centered through conscious action, self-care, and love.
a woman walking down a snowy tree-lined road and an inspiring quote text
By Dena Gould January 25, 2025
Discover powerful techniques to heal past relationship wounds, release emotional baggage, and attract healthy, fulfilling love.
2 graphs showing the expected and actual non-linear visual of change and healing
By Dena Gould December 26, 2024
How to convert Intentions into Action
By Dena Gould November 25, 2024
Read a personal story to rediscover the truth that you have full control over how you experience life. You have choices about the thoughts you entertain and the stories you feed.
a silhouette of a women in front of a partly open door with light pouring out of it
By Dena Gould October 28, 2024
How to recognize when you are living from Fear and how to turn it around!
a fall forest with light through trees
By Dena Gould September 29, 2024
How do you experience the Fall? Many of us fall into heavy feelings but these rituals and breathwork can help you process and thrive.
a shiny gold shimmery bokeh design with gold text over the dark purple background
By Dena Gould August 27, 2024
Being kind isn't going to heal you if you have not identified and releases low vibe subconscious programming.
a light background with a title
By Dena Gould July 31, 2024
Learn to identify each of the 8 clairs and compare to your own experience!
Show More